STFU Sizists

While i am a HUGE supporter of the Health At Every Size (HAES), big is beautiful movments

libbylibbylove:

A lot of people are not praticing what they preach

a lot of chubbs  (skinnies too, but i can only speak from my fat girl’s perspective, because i am a fat girl)are supporting this movement and they are truly NOT healthy….

which in turn perpetuates the stereotype that larger people are unhealthy

fatties are all HAES, HAES, HAES and they are NOT healthy

just the same as Skinnies yelling “thin is in” and they have health issues as well

and not to mention the amount of ridicule the a plus size girl/boy faces when she/he wants to become active and get healthy, people from her/his OWN plus size community will call her/him a traitor and a sell out because she/he wants to do better in their life, people are doing too much reflecting, they see themselves in EVERY plus size person and when that person changes(i.e. lose wright) they feel a sense of anger because they feel that person is “betraying them” when in reaity that persons lifestyle shouldnt have anything to do with your life

if you want to stay fat stay fat, but dont knock the other person down because they dont want to

you should ALWAYS love yourself regardless of your size, love yourself fat, skinny, and inbewteen as long as your not hurting yourself or others and your staying balanced in your mind, body, and spirit(not necessarily religion, but yourself as a being)

ultimately, 

their is no way around it

eating better food, and moving your body,connecting with yourself will make you change inside and out and sometimes that means your weight will change to

let everyone go on their OWN journey, stop riding their coattails……

IT IS NOT THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE PEOPLE WHO THE STEREOTYPE OPPRESSED TO BREAK THE STEREOTYPE.

Thin people need to stop judging fat bodies as innately unhealthy. This is something done TO fat people by thin people and this whole post is just dripping in internalised fat-hate and victim-blaming. 

Fat people can be healthy. That doesn’t mean they have to be. Health is also a subjective concept, and who the fuck are you to judge whether someone’s healthy enough to pass an arbitrary measure you’ve made up?

You’re perpetuating the same shit you suffer.